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The Do’s And Don’ts Of Masturbating A Girl

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Knowing how to masturbate a girl is an important skill for a sex stud. Sex is more than just kissing, touching, and penetrating a woman. Going down on a girl and licking her pussy is one of the fastest ways of making her squirt with pleasure. In fact, most women find it easier to get an orgasm through oral sex, rather than penetration.

Despite the importance of masturbating a girl, very many men have never learned how to do it like a pro. Most women will not give a tutorial unless coaxed into doing so. A lot of men are therefore left to wander around the pussy, trying one trick after the other in the hope of getting earth shattering reactions.

This post will delve into the important dos and don’ts of masturbating a girl. This will make it easier for you to make a girl shudder with orgasms time and again. It will also help you avoid pitfalls down below, which can totally wreck the experience for your girl.

Do’s When Masturbating a Girl

Make her comfortable

If she is uncomfortable, no amount of pussy blowing will produce any results. A girl takes much longer to orgasm, or never at all, when cold, hungry, or distracted. Women are also very sensitive about the taste, odor, and appearance of their genitalia. 

Talking to her and reassuring her will make your work much easier, once you go below deck.

Keep her warm, reassured, and feeling wanted, and her orgasms will be at your beck and call.

Be attentive

This is the most important of all dos and don’ts of masturbating a girl. All girls are different, so what works with one may not be that much of a draw for another. The one thing you have going for you is paying attention to her reactions.

Every pressure, lick, suck, or touch, will elicit a reaction, or not. Paying attention will help you vary and switch techniques till you get the desired outcome. A girl will press against you when she wants more pressure, or pull away when she wants you to go easy on her. 

She may also moan with pleasure, or scream in anguish. Knowing how to recognize and respond to her reactions will turn you into a veritable sex guru in no time. 

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Be patient

A girl’s orgasm can be hard to nail down. Although men orgasm almost at will, women need much more patience and perseverance to get there. Going down on a woman requires well directed finesse for much longer periods.

A lot of girls give up and fake it when they take too long to orgasm, knowing your jaws are killing you. Letting her know you are in no hurry makes her relax and come faster. If you are in a hurry, this is not the thing for you.

Focus on the hot spots

A woman’s vagina can be a maze for the inexperienced. Masturbating a girl can turn out to be an exercise in futility if you waste your energy on the wrong spots. The most important part is the clitoris. This is the queen of the castle, and all attention and respect must be paid to her. The clitoris is the most erogenous part of a woman, so putting all your efforts on it will pay handsome dividends. 

Another important spot is the G-Spot. This is a penny size spot on the roof of her vagina, which can be reached by inserting a finger into her. The G-spot is the source of intense pleasure that can make a girl squirt to high heaven.

Get handy

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A little guidance doesn’t hurt. sensual-fingeringuc.tumblr.com

It is easy to forget to use your hands when masturbating a girl. Licking and sucking needs concentration, and men are never adept at multitasking. However, this is one skill that can turn a simple oral job into a massively pleasurable climax.

Reach up and caress her breasts, butt, thighs, and tummy as you eat her pussy. This heightens arousal, making her come faster, deeper, and longer. 

You should also use your fingers to finger fuck her while licking her pussy. Some girls may opt out of this treatment, so watch for her reaction. Use one or two fingers, and stimulate her G spot to enhance arousal. 

Don’ts When Masturbating a Girl

Do not change rhythm 

A constant and focused rhythm is the only way to give a girl an orgasm. This is especially important once she begins the build up to the orgasm. Changing your speed and rhythm at the wrong moment will immediately drag you back to zero. Starting the whole buildup again may be too tiresome for her, or your tongue.

Steady wins the race.

Once you figure what amount of pressure and pace gives her the best sensation, stick to it till the end. Do not try anything new once you sense she is about to explode. 

Avoid fingering her butt hole

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Nothing kills the moment before orgasm like jamming a finger up her ass. This will definitely not enhance pleasure. Most women find it uncomfortable, distracting, and even downright painful. Unless she expressly tells you to do it, restrict this maneuver within the realms of your fantasies.

Do not look up

If you need to know how she is doing, simply listen and follow her reactions. Do not peep over her belly button to catch a glimpse of her face. Making eye contact at this time makes women uncomfortable. Keep your eyes glued to her pussy, and let her do the looking. 

Don’t make a face

The odor or taste of a pussy can take you by surprise if you are not used to it. Keep your face expressionless if you cannot act like you just tasted the sweetest candy. She will be watching you very closely for signs that her pussy tastes or smells bad. Any show of distaste and your game is up forever. She will never let you back there again no matter what. 

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Skip the rough act

It is very important to be gentle especially at the beginning. Increase pressure and pace as she responds, without being overly pushy or aggressive. Getting her to orgasm is like coaxing a rabbit out of a hole. Avoid rough finger fucking, biting, or scratching. You want her focused on pleasure, not on your macho act.

Above all, remember this is all a fun and pleasurable activity. Be playful and enjoy it as much as you can. It will make her relax and orgasm faster, if she knows you love doing it too. Once she explodes into a shuddering climax, you will have free reign over her booty for good.

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Written by Paco Penne

Paco Penne is a sex expert, coach, and author who has applied everything he teaches throughout his successful dating and relationship life, and now helps thousands of men around the world bring out their best game from within.

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